I want a big man!

Well my journey continues finding a man who ticks all my boxes is not easy. I get some interesting offers most are too far away or too desperate LOL Chatting to Dan last night in bed he reminded me of the time I came home extra horny (his words not mine) I belonged to this local sports club and we had our annual dinner. I was picked up by Pieter who was our team captain, Dutch and 6ft 10ins tall as I am only 5ft 4ins he is certainly someone I look up to. I like taller men and men to be men and he is certainly is one of those.  We always got on well and teased each other normally about our size difference. That night Pieter picked me up and we joined the group for a pizza and I was encouraged to drink a glass of wine or two or three from him. Wine does loosen me up and I was having a great time. The pizza restaurant had a dance floor and Pieter pulled me onto the dance floor and we danced and danced encouraged by the other club members who had picked on we liked each other.

When a slow dance came on we were certainly close to each other and our hands were wandering especially around the bum area, his was firm and I sort of remember being picked up and kissed. I know I was thinking naughty thoughts would his cock be in proportion to his body? I guess I was ready to find out and have hoped we would get some time together alone unfortunately on the  way back we had to give a lift to someone else who lived past me. So Pieter had to drop me off, I think we would have both liked to have stopped in somewhere a bit quieter and explored each other. Dan reminded me I did give him one hell of a fuck which I sort of remembered. Unfortunately not long after Pieter moved away so we never had a chance to go a bit further. Encouraged by this Dan gave a few quick fuck!
 
So my quest is for a tall man with a big cock LOL. Am i being a bit too picky. Off to look at a chat room and put my cam on!

Well time has passed and I did switch on my cam and wow was I popular I put on a gown and seems every man wanted me to get my boobs out. Many asked if I was wet, shaven, horny,up for a meet. Many wanted me to watch them cum.... certainly an eye opener!  I teased but did not get my breast out this time. It felt strange as I know I was being watched by a lot of men and a few women.  It sorted got me excited as I felt I had the power over the men who were willing to do anything for me if I flashed! Saw a lot of men and cocks. I picked this one shame about the tattoos. Maybe next time a bit of nipple .. what do you think x

Early morning grope

Well what a start to the morning as always I sleep naked, on my side facing away from my partner Dan and I was awoken by Dan who had put his hands around by boobs and was caressing and tweaking my nipples. Its not unusual for Dan to do this but he has always joked that one day he was going to get a friend slip into bed in his place and let him play with me, he said as I am not one that comes around that quickly I would not notice it was another man until it was too late. An evil plan I say but with me agreeing to look for another man to keep him happy I do worry that I may find this happening to me one morning if I do not find one. So it was pleasant awaking especially as it was Dan and not a friend of his having a grope and fondle. It was not long before I felt his cock slide between my legs into my pussy.He was very hard and whispered he had an erotic dream where I get off with two men after meeting them in a club he gets alot of erotic dreams I do not remember any of my dreams. He asked how I was getting on with my quest for another cock and I teased him by saying I had one lined up who was fit, well hung and young. It was enough for him to get over excited and shoot his load so I could go back to sleep. Why are men so impatient?  Got to make sure I do not rush into this and get what I want and not what Dan wants.

Had a look into my swingers site and found I had an e-mail bit soon I think to arrange a meet, need to do a bit of window shopping and see if I can be brave to flirt on cam. Here is the message, will try out the cam later :)

Hello there Sopsouth,
I was hoping that you might be interested in meeting me as we are friends . I am new to the site and so I am not sure of the correct protocol but I am experienced in grown up pleasures. I am happy to chat or e mail to get to know you first if you like, I am very tactile, I love to caress and sensually stroke a lady to give her pleasure, plus, of course, the more traditional activities. I am very excited at the idea of sensually caressing you and hope that you would like to know more. I would enjoy a nice slow sexy session. I am cool about threesomes so tell me what you guys like to do. I'd like to meet for a drink first so we can be sure that there is the chemistry. Of interest to you maybe is the size of my equipment, which I am told is more than adequate, I can send you a picture if you'd like.
Please get back with some ideas about what you would like between us. I am very happy to fit in with whatever is your pleasure.
Hope to hear from you
John x

Should I get on cam?

A busy day and no chance to meet any men  and it was only the rain that got me wet LOL so off to look online.....

  I see on the swingers site there are chat room and you not only get a chance to chat you also get to see people on camera (cams so I am told). Its all happens so fast and people are chatting to each other in the room so a bit difficult to keep up. Dan pointed out to me that people can whisper, which is a private message.  You can have several cams on at the same time and most seem to be of men with their cocks on show. Certainly not shy and many show faces as well. I can see that all men are not the same a whole range of sizes. Some seem very large and of course happy to show what it can do! a lot of one hand typing LOL.
My first message 

First topless photo

Sopsouth: good evening room
first and 2nd reply
fairy_dust_1: hello sop x
maverick40: sop evening

How brave am I!
We do have a cam but not brave enough to switch it on though I have been topless on a beach many a time. The first when I was 18 photo attached certainly my boobs have expanded which Dan enjoys and I guess that is what men like most about me.... well I am about to find out just got to imagine I am on a beach and then take my top off on cam. Will make sure I take a screenshot of when I do...

Not sure I can stay on long in the chat room getting a few messages which I do  not understand what on earth is cuckold? A man asks if I am one LOL Answers please!

I need bedroom eyes

Its seems Dan is keen to find out if I have ever been tempted by another man or have been approached for sex and the answer is no. I think he was a bit disappointed and was hoping I have been tempted but I guess its not  on my mind or maybe its the fact the right man has not come along and pushed the right buttons.

He did talk about the attention I get but from my point of view its only looking, As a busty blue eyed blonde I do get a lot of looks especially if I have a lot of cleavage on show but maybe men are too scared and think I ams already getting enough. It surprising what goes through your mind and I guess I have had opportunities but I am happy, Dan has satisfied me and what if I did? Would another cock lead to another? What would I get out of it apart from the obvious :)

I guess now that I promised Dan I would look around for another man things may change he says I can be a bit abrupt around men and scare them. It seems I need a twinkle in my eye and need to get some bedroom eyes, now where can you buy those LOL Sort of feeling nervous is it something I should be doing and what will it feel like to have another man's cock inside me... oh lots of feelings, its like being a teenager again. I am sure today I will be looking at men in a different way.

On the swingers site last night I read things I did not understand some peoples sexual desires are so diverse, I have lots to learn but at least I have a couple as a new friend, they are not shy and I will learn a lot from them I guess its good they are so far away as have an excuse not to meet. Never thought a women would be attacked to me hm..

Sex was interesting last night Dan was pumping me harder in more ways than one! He went on for ages and he eventually came but I did not manage my orgasm I think I had too much on my mind. Need to find those bedroom eyes! I wonder what will happen today, just hope I can concentrate at work

I have a post and a new friend!

Well did not take long after putting a profile on the swingers site  within 5 minutes had a message from a 23 year old bloke from Cardiff!  A bit young I am afraid here is his message..

"hey there, hows you? a bit chessey but better than a wink and breaks the ice lol xx"

Then I had a request for a friend.. not sure what that is but it seemed you make friends easily on here.. its a couple 49 & 48  from Ayrshire  too far I am afraid but at least we can have a chat. Here a pic of the lady.. all very interesting a whole new world guess Dan will want an update. Shall I tease him and say I have pulled? May be worth it just for a spanking LOL

Sexual wish list

Well I have explored the swingers site and certainly opened my eyes but not my legs yet LOL The problem will be finding someone who fits my wish list as I can see there are some hard swingers online and not sure I would be happy with someone who collects women as a hobby.. but some of them are very  fit and big. Not used to a cock over 6 inches.. yet!

So I though I would do a wish list and tell people they need to tick all my boxes as I feel I would be swamped. I deleted all the old messages Dan have received on my behalf I think he was getting his kicks by replying as me. Luckily he has not arranged a meet  *phew*

This is what I wrote. Any good? -

Hi a newish couple to this site who are fun, adventurous and good company. I have more energy than Dan who sometimes would like to enjoy a nice walk, a chat and take a few photos rather than have sex! Any couples out there with the opposite in their partnership or male who tick all my boxes?  - I have had one sex partner from this site Dan and would like to try another mmf. Maybe Dan will want to watch or at least have photographic proof, he seems turned on about the idea of me being with another man.. I enjoy dressing up, love wearing stockings and when warm enjoy having sex outdoors.  Enjoy mild spanking, being teased and of course teasing. 

My boxes you need to tick all not actively looking but please drop me a line if you tick all ;)

• Like to find someone between 30 - 60
• no solo married men unless your wife is happy to speak to Dan or join in ..
• being fit and well hung desired :)
• no smokers..
• no anal (not even in your profile)....
• no cock photos sent  will block you if i see or you send a cock photo on first message so be warned...
• send only a face only pic if you do send a photo..
• Not into dogging...
• no large amount of tattoo's..
• limited piercings only
  no text messages
• no time wasters
  no desperate men LOL or after a bit on the side! 
• Please no one liners

New to this so beginners welcome would like to learn the ropes with someone who wants me and not see me as another notch

drinks first must be happy to meet Dan.. I like to take it one step at a time... if you are in a rush pass me by

Offers of coffee is good as is wine or any other imaginative ideas to get to know each other is appreciated   xxx

First time on a swingers site

The weather not been good this morning so it was probable a good time to explore swingers heaven with Dan. It seems he has had an account for us for some time and I do think he told me about this some time ago but it was not something I am worried about him having an account or straying. He is certainly not someone who would go off with another women as his obsession is trying to get me to have sex with another man and he is very much a voyeur. Loves to watch and not touch. Dan has already provided a profile and funny enough a lot of photos of me, luckily enough my face is blurred but I am guessing its not something a man is worried about. It was a but 'oh my goodness' to see your naked breasts already on site and viewed 100's of times. Sort okay with that as I am a bit of an exhibitionist but this is certainly a lot different than a quick flash of stockings or cleavage when out this has the potential of the world seeing your body.. 'gulp'

Dan gave an interesting tour and he seems to already have had a few messages for me which he has replied... seems I do not have a partner but a pimp!. We agreed from now on I am in control he does not touch or encourage people on the site without my say! If I am going to meet someone it will be on my terms as I am not sure I will repeat this, but again if I do get a good cock maybe my mind will change... hmm.. already got me thinking about other men and after having a quick look at the pics there are a lot on show! So many different sizes, oh my I have lived a sheltered life so much to learn but I will learn quick best breast forward I say :).

First task is for me to write a profile, what Dan wrote makes me look desperate and will go with any man as long as he has a pulse! Will write and add later...   added a photo of me  in a window, hopefully you will like its very tasteful which all my photos are. Will add this as my profile photo on here.